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I was born in the relatively new
family home of my parents at 309 West Center Street in Richfield,
Utah in Sevier County on the 19th of March 1915. My short, personable,
and charming mother was Rebecca May Eames, born 28th December, 1886,
who was the daughter of David Cullen Eames (1851-1929) and Elizabeth
Cluley Greaves (1856-1942). She was reared on the old Eames 80 acre
farm I enjoyed so much as a boy on family reunions every other summer
two miles out of Preston, Idaho. (Yes, that is what I was named
after.) Father met her there as he worked for her father to earn
medical school money during the summer of 1905. They were married
in the Logan Temple July 18, 1907.
My father was Thomas Ray Gledhill
who practiced medicine for forty-five years in Richfield. He was
the epitome of the old general practitioner: kind, dedicated, and
generous. He delivered hundreds of babies throughout central Utah;
only a few of them were born in a hospital and many of them were
never paid for. I am not acquainted with any doctors today who will
come to your home any time, day or night as he did. Ray, as Mother
called him, was born February 13, 1883 in Mt. Pleasant, Sanpete
County, Utah to Thomas Gledhill (1856-1933), from Oldham, Lancashire,
England, and Lilie Belle Ivie (1856-1929). After receiving his M.D.
degree from Northwestern University, Father located in Richfield
on July 23, 1909. He was one of the most devout Latter-day Saints
I have ever known. I am very grateful for the rich heritage of both
my parents. They were exemplary, active church workers. Among other
offices Mother was Primary and YWMIA president. Father was in a
bishopric and a stake presidency.
As a result of debilitating diseases
as a girl and multiple operations as an adult, Mother was never
very well physically; in her prime you would never know it. I like
to think of her vivaciously visiting with her friends over the telephone
and in person, a natural leader of the Richfield Study Club or some
other book, giving a book or play review, reading poems, effectively
answering Dad’s telephone calls and keeping his books, stimulating
and organizing her seven children in their individual household
duties and cultural activities. I didn’t ever learn to like scrubbing
and mopping the kitchen floor on my hands and knees but I got so
I didn’t complain, much. I knew I had to take piano lessons and
get in a certain amount of practice, but I wasn’t always conscientious.
I got so I liked the sax and clarinet. Marching in parades and being
in the all-state band during the summer of 1932 in Logan was fun.
Also, thanks to mother, I picked up an interest in dramatics. She
soon had me enjoy giving readings and being in plays and pageants.
She even helped me win some speech contests. She was a natural teacher:
school (pre-marriage), Primary, Sunday School (all her life), home,
club, wherever. Too bad I didn’t get her gregarious social vitality.
Unfortunately it couldn’t last to the end. Dad had died in February
and Mother was staying with my sister Ora in Salt Lake when she
had her last stroke and passed away July 25, 1955 after being an
invalid for two years.
On the other hand Father was healthy
all his life, had taken very few vacations, and had never been a
patient in a hospital. On his 72nd birthday, February 13, 1955,
he made some early Sunday calls and then went to Sunday School as
usual. My family and I were down from Provo for his birthday dinner
and to celebrate the occasion. Dad, shortly after we had begun eating,
asked to be excused and went out in the front room. After a few
minutes I went to inquire about him and found him lying on the sofa.
He indicated he must have appendicitis and that I should take him
to the hospital. Dr. McQuarrie operated and found the appendix had
ruptured and considerable peritonitis had set in which caused his
death five days later. While I was attending the University of Wisconsin
Father wrote assuring us he had implicit faith that he would live
“the full age of man” or in other words until he was 72. His reference
was to the quotation in the Book of Mormon, Third Nephi 28:3. I
don’t for a minute think he had any death wish, but he was a very
spiritual man and did manage to keep in good health as long as he
had predicted.
My oldest sister Ora was born in Chicago
in 1908 and taught school in Preston, Idaho and Eugene, Oregon,
after starting out in Sevier County. We have shared three foreign
travel tours together. She assisted me in my biggest private tour
in 1953. Our last one together was my “Around the Pacific BYU Study
Tour” (Alaska, Asia, Southeast Asia, Australia, New Zealand, and
the South Pacific) in 1969. Ora retired from teaching at 63 and
for several years lived in her basement apartment in Salt Lake.
We persuaded her, in early 1965, to move to the Provo Cove Point
Retirement Community. Now, as of this typing, she is 78 and is enjoying
an active life with many good friends and conveniently close to
Utahna, Evelyn, David, and myself, her four Utah County siblings.
My sister Utahna went to Utah State
University and then taught elementary school before marrying Neil
McKnight. They had five fine intelligent children. While living
in Corvallis, Oregon they were divorced and Utahna moved to Orem
with her unmarried children. My third sister Evelyn, after attending
the “Y” a couple of years, married an attorney, H. Vern Wentz. They
have four devoted children. My brother Theodore Rodger attended
the University of Utah and went on the Japanese Mission in Hawaii
(was in the midst of the Pearl Harbor attack). He was in business
in Salt Lake. As a Cougar Club booster of BYU athletics, he, with
others, went on a trip to New Mexico University the first time the
Y won the WAC football championship (1965) and was killed in a chartered
plane crash at the “point of the mountain” shortly after leaving
Salt Lake Airport. Ilah Dean, my fourth sister, went to BYU and
married Thad R. Williams of Central, Utah who was an officer in
the Navy and after retirement worked for a brokerage firm in California.
They have three children who are greatly loved. Ilah has (retired
in 1984) an excellent position with the Bank of America in Pasadena.
The folks’ youngest child was David Eames who graduated from BYU
and served a British Mission. He married Joy Christiansen with whom
he had three fine children. He has taught school in Springville
(Joy has also) for many years and is a specialist in reading. He
has been a bishop and first counselor in the Kolob Stake Presidency.
All of my brothers and sisters have been active in the church including
temple activity.
As a further preface to my personal
history, I wish to include a quotation from my father’s short autobiography
of which the final paragraph pertains to my birth:
Soon after we arrived in Richfield,
May (Mrs. Gledhill) took sick and for nearly two years she was ill
most of the time. She had three minor operations and had been to
the hospital with no relief. President William H. Seegmiller gave
her a patriarchal blessing in which he promised her she should get
well and be the mother of additional children. Later she was operated
on and a tumor of the uterus was found which was the most fatal
of all cancers. The other doctors advised and insisted on removing
her uterus. To this I objected because of her blessing for we knew
she should live and be a mother of more children. The tumor alone
was removed and as the doctors predicted it returned and was removed
the second time. About two years later we went to the Manti Temple
where the temple president gave her a special blessing and anointing
to the effect that she would conceive and become a mother in about
nine months from this date. God gave us, as he had promised, an
11-pound son and we named him Preston Ray.
A much more detailed account of this
incident was written by my father in Gems of Reminiscence,
Seventeenth Book of the Faith Promoting Series compiled and published
by George C. Lambert, Salt Lake City, 1915, under the title “A Remarkable
Patriarchal Blessing” which I may include in the appendix to this
personal history. (See Appendix A)
One of my earliest childhood recollections
at the family home was going out to pick up The Deseret News
for my father. I was just a two or three-year-old toddler. There
was a big hedge around the house and an iron gate at the sidewalk
entrance. This was where the paper was dropped.
My earliest best friends were Richard
Ross, Deon Nelson, and Shiryl Pace (the latter died of cancer while
we were in high school), all of whom lived on the same block as
I did. Other school chums were Harry Green, Dick Ogden, Sharff Sumner,
Earl Camp, and Jim Peterson. Among the girl schoolmates were Maza,
Fern and Mae Christensen, Ruth Cloward, Devona Pectal, Nola Taylor,
Anna Lou Peterson, Ruty Neill, Olive Ogden, Bernice Ogden, Anna
Dee Coons, Gwen Ashman, Nina Anderson, Zona Morrison, Leone Peterson,
and Elethe Fillmore—all of whom I dated. The dating was during my
high school years when a rather large group of us were quite active
socially. Harry Green, who lived a block east of us, was the only
child in a large home which had a basement recreation room and dance
floor. It was used frequently. The town dance hall was called the
Anona Pavilion which had a good spring floor.
To headline my high school activities,
the following were listed in the 1933 yearbook The Severian
under Preston Gledhill, “Doc” (my nickname because of my dad): Band
and orchestra ‘30, ‘31, ‘32, ‘33; Future Farmers of America ‘30,
‘31, ‘32, ‘33; Quill and Scroll (literary club) ‘32, ‘33; Opera
‘31, ‘32; School Play ‘32, ‘33; All Boys Show ‘32; Yearbook Staff
‘33; Music Manager ‘32, ‘33; Mask Club ‘31, ‘32, ‘33; Honor Club
‘33.
William B. McCoard, our drama instructor,
(together with my mother) aroused in me a lifelong love of the theater.
I took all of his classes, joined the Mask Club when he began it
in 1931, and played the romantic lead in the school plays he directed
during my junior and senior years. He later married my school friend,
Fern Christensen, and later still became a prominent educator and
head of interpretation at the University of Southern California.
My first lead was in Phillip Barry’s “The Youngest.” It was in
this play that I began living the role to the extent of becoming
infatuated with my leading lady who in this case was Ruth Cloward
who was also student body president that year. The next year it
was opposite Maza Christensen in “The Brat.” Then in college, among
others, there were Norma Pardoe, in “Coquette” and Helen Clark in
“We Are Seven” before I met the permanent one, Isabelle Romney in
“You Can’t Take It With You”—but I did.
What whetted my appetite for drama
was when I was 14 and played the boy Joseph Smith (kneeling in the
Grove, etc.) for a big stake pageant. I also played in several M.I.A.
plays. One title I remember because it seems foreign to church drama
was “The Killer.” It did come from the MIA Handbook of Plays, however.
I also used to give readings and I wont a first place medal in the
church storytelling contest when the MIA used to sponsor them. Two
of my most successful monologues were “Gee Whiz” and “What Women
Wear and Why.” Mother was my most ardent fan and critic. “In the
Toils of the Enemy” was a not-so-successful performance which I
gave at the annual Junior-Senior Banquet in the Little Theater.
I hadn’t prepared it well enough to be really secure in it so I
had Utahna stand behind the stage curtain holding my script. Well,
because I had a crutch, I had to use it and she had to prompt me
several times. It was one of my most embarrassing experiences. Thereafter
anything I did from memory was well learned and I never even brought
my script with me, let alone a prompter. It was something I learned
about being self-reliant. I used to memorize quickly, but those
days are long passed. Another selection I did more than once was
“The White Swam” by Paul Gallico.
Another special interest in high school
was music. In grade school Mother insisted I take piano lessons
from Anna Calloway. I took them reluctantly for several years but
since I thought I had more important things to do, such as play
and read novels, I didn’t progress as much as I should have. Nevertheless,
I am grateful to Mother for her persistence since my skill, such
as it was, served me well as an introduction to music and in the
mission field where in three branches I played the organ or piano
for all the hymns. It still gives me some personal enjoyment. In
about the 8th grade Dad bought me a B-flat saxophone. This started
my activity in the band. I was in the school band every year thereafter
until I had finished my freshman year in the BYU band where I played
the clarinet under Robert Sauer, composer of “Springtime in the
Rockies.” I became high school music manager under our music teacher
H. D. Christensen. By that time I had bought a Selmer metal clarinet
and was also playing the trumpet (my brother T.R. had one) and for
a year, to help the band out, played the alto and baritone horns.
Using the word loosely I even “sang” in a couple of operas: “Oh,
Doctor” and “Robin Hood.” I played Allan-a-Dale in the latter and
in the former I was to sing an important bass solo which I couldn’t
handle (singing is certainly not my forte). So, since I could act
the role, Mr. Christensen had Ed Morrison, who could sing well,
do the solo from the wings while I mimed it. One of the highlights
of R.H.S. was when I was selected to be in the all-state band and
had the privilege of going to Utah State University in Logan for
a three-week summer training session. It was a thrill to stay in
one of the Aggie dorms, to be away from home, and to savor my experience
of college life. I also played in a dance band which brought me
in some spending money. I borrowed a tenor sax to play in that band
and doubled on my clarinet. We played at the swimming pool dance
hall during the summer as well as up in Glenwood’s Canyon resort
“The Rendez-Vous,” at Fish Lake and once at Shady Dell in Sevier
Canyon. I also played in the Richfield City band on the Fourth of
July and for other parades.
I read many novels as a boy such as
those by Zane Gray, but some of my favorites were David Copperfield
(I had a passion for dickens), Les Miserables, and How
Green Was My Valley. Later I went for War and Peace.
As I write this, I note that about the only fiction I read lately
are the numerous plays I am required to read as a play director
and professor of theater.
In addition to the drama club and
band, I participated in other activities. All my life I have been
an avid sports fan but because of a heart problem and resultant
shortness of breath was never able to compete in competitive athletics.
My first grade teacher was Ada Thurber Luth whom I have seen many
times since. Other teachers I remember well are Clifford Reece and
Mr. Nelson, my junior high school teacher; in high school Don Kenney,
Paul Packard, Joy Buys, Eudora Miller, Golden Wright, and the principal
Angus Maughan; also Luella Hood, Grace Crook, John Adams, and Thelma
Dastrup.
During this high school period I milked
from two to five cows twice a day to earn my spending money. Dad
made it profitable to me in a small way since he generously bought
the cows and the feed. I sold the extra milk the family didn’t use
to the creamery to make cheese. We received as little as 1½-3¢ per
quart in those Depression days. These regular chores, which included
feeding the cows and other animals we might have such as pigs, chickens,
and horses, did teach me to accept responsibility and be dependable
which were valuable lessons my parents taught me. Even in grade
school I was encouraged to take a paper route selling the Salt
Lake Tribune. This necessitated riding my bike all the way to
the depot to pick up the papers. The papers I sold downtown in the
Johnston Hotel and other places were the most profitable ones, especially
since I occasionally received a tip. I was selling when I was twelve
because I still vividly remember the headlines I shouted out in
1927 when Lindberg made the first solo crossing over the Atlantic.
My most embarrassing experience as a paper boy was one extremely
cold evening when nature called and I could find no appropriate
place to relieve myself and I wet my pants while riding the bike.
I naturally hurried home and came back to finish my route later.
In the summers I earned a little cash
thinning beets. It was usually less than a dollar for a day’s work.
I remember it was a satisfying achievement when I finally made a
dollar or more. When I was older (high school age) I earned $3 for
blocking, with the hoe, an acre of beets, the financial pinnacle
of my youth. In the fall I topped the beets. While I was in high
school, Dad bought the Black Knolls Ranch out of Sigurd. I helped
there in the summers as well. Dad had a ranch family who tried to
eek out a living there but it was an unprofitable enterprise like
most of those Dad engaged in other than his medical practice, especially
investing in mines. He lost many thousands of dollars in them. He
was a dreamer and became an easy mark for con artists and a few
sincere miners who truly hoped to get rich. He left dozens of worthless
stock certificates and a few we realized a few hundred dollars from.
It was because Dad was an eternal optimist which is usually a desirable
characteristic. He was one of the finest, most honest, and sincerely
religious men I ever knew. He had a gigantic heart and did free
medical work for hundreds including all the Indians in that area.
Many took advantage of him but I’m sure he is now receiving his
reward. I loved both my parents, very, very much. As is customary,
I didn’t appreciate them as much as I should have when I was young,
but did always try to honor them and let them know I loved them.
However, I was sometimes weak and did things they wouldn’t have
approved.
As a youth I felt satisfaction and
security in the good name, accomplishments, and reputation of my
father and mother. “Dad” was well known for his kindness and integrity
as well as his professional skill. It was always a pleasure to have
him ask me to go on a call with him to Monroe, Elsinore or a town
even as far away as Marysvale which included a beautiful canyon
drive. I enjoyed these long rides on the gravel and dirt roads of
the 1920s. He often spoke of his early days on the farm in Vermilion
or his struggles in getting an education. At other times he emphasized
spiritual values and some of his uplifting experiences which were
so dear to him. These were for my edification but were not couched
as preachments but warm communication with a son he hoped would
profit as well as be entertained. Even in his later years he was
known as the one “country doctor” who would make urgent distant
house calls and deliver babies day or night. I remember times he
got little or no sleep and his dashing home just as we were preparing
or eating breakfast. He would say, “I’ll be with you in a moment
for family prayers.” Then he would get cleaned up, pray, enjoy
a hearty but hurried breakfast and go to his office in the Richfield
Commercial Bank Building or start on another round of calls. He
served many families of patients for years without earthly remuneration.
Occasionally after a long confinement (O.B.) Case he would return
with a leg of lamb or a ham from someone who wanted to make a token
payment. Mother would keep his books, send out statements to those
he felt could afford to pay, and take his calls at home while his
receptionist-nurse worked at the office. Our sweet little mother
was a tremendous support not only to him but all seven of her children
whom she wanted so to achieve. She had considerable personal charm
and was our greatest fan. She excelled in any social situation,
was a good oral reader, and gave several book reviews to her Study
Club and other groups. Unfortunately her natural vitality, talent,
and executive capabilities were curbed by many surgeries and illnesses.
Some of my fondest family memories
were in Fish Lake where we had a rustic but very picturesque mountain
cabin. What fund we had with Ashmans and other family friends;
especially with each other. Dad couldn’t get away very often, but
even those few days in the summer were very special. He instilled
in me a love of nature, fishing, hunting, and sports in general.
The only longer trip going out of
the state for the firs time (other than family reunions in Preston,
Idaho n the farm of Grandfather and Grandmother Eames) was to California.
The younger children were left in the care of our mature and dependable
“hired girl,” Lorna, while Ora and I drove with “the folks” to southern
California. The boat trip to Catalina Island was a memorable highlight.
Like many young people of today, I
had a love affair with cars and could scarcely wait to get a driver’s
license. In fact in a few cases I couldn’t. Once when I took the
family car, a 1928 light green Chrysler in that case, for an exciting
(rest of the page is cut off). as I returned. He didn’t say a word,
but his look spoke volumes. Ora, seven years my senior, wasn’t as
adventuresome as I was and Dad seemed to want to please his eldest
son and himself by teaching him to drive a bit early but that was
supposed to be under his direct supervision. Once the age barrier
was attained, I drove the family two-seater most of the time. Dad
usually drove his couple. Neither Mother nor Ora felt comfortable
behind the wheel. This was a bit of good fortune for me because
cars were still somewhat of a novelty in those days which made the
experience more exciting. (When I first enrolled at BYU in 1933,
only one student had his own car, Spencer Grow.) My first long drive
was to Provo to take Ora to school. She usually went by train since
Dad was the Central Utah doctor for the D&RG and could get any
of us a free pass. My first train ride to Salt Lake City was also
a thrill, as was the city itself.
As I look back upon my Richfield High
School days where I had the most, the closest, and warmest friends
of my life, I nostalgically remember with fondness the many schools,
music, dramatic, and social activities, pleasant family relations
and a lot of carefree fun. But with it all my parents taught me
to work and take responsibility. I took my turn washing dishes,
scrubbing the kitchen floor on my knees with a scrubbing brush,
planting and weeding the garden (Mother had a beautiful flower garden
too and the lot was professionally landscaped), watered, and mowed
the lawn. The most demanding chores every night and morning were
taking care of the cows and other livestock at the corral across
the street and one-half block north of our home. After milking and
feeding, I had to strain the milk and put it in milk cans for the
creamery to pick up. I also had customers to deliver a quart or
two to such as Grandmother and Grandmother Gledhill who lived across
from the corral and Aunt Ida and Aunt Millie who lived on the corner
south of the corral. Aunt Milie and Uncle Ern ran a little convenience
grocery store there.
During all this growing up period,
in addition to school, chores, and fun with friends, I was active
in church which has always been so important in my life. Looking
back honestly, however I realize I didn’t have the maturity to appreciate
it as much as I do now, but in my turn I was president of the deacons
and the teachers quorum, secretary of the priests (not president
until I became a bishop) and participate d(Mother sat to that) in
all the road shows, storytelling contests, and ward and stake plays.
I am and will forever be grateful for my heritage and am still impressed
by the example of faithfulness, testimony, and service of my father
and mother. They never complained but sacrificed much for their
family and church. That was their happiness. All three of their
sons served missions and I know what a struggle it was in those
Depression years. So many people just didn’t pay their doctor bills,
but they had faith in the Lord and His work and solutions always
came.
Some Faith Promoting Incidents
Chronologically, the first faith promoting
incident in my life dealt with the circumstances relating to my
birth, cited earlier, even though that had to do with the faith
and prayers of my parents. The second was when I was a two or three-year-old
toddler. Dad was in the Second Ward Bishopric at that time. He and
Mother were at a church social that evening and had left me with
a babysitter. (They had apparently not trusted my older sister Ora.)
While dancing with Mother, Dad had a strong impression that something
was wrong at home and that they should return. He first dismissed
it as his imagination but a few minutes later an even stronger impression,
almost as if it were an audible voice, told him to go home and check
on the baby. When he told Mother she too knew something was wrong
and they left immediately. It was not goo soon for my sitter had
gone to sleep and I had got out of bed and had managed to get outside.
It was a bitterly cold winter’s night with snow on the ground. I
had apparently been crying and searching for my parents. It was
so cold I became sleepy and lay down on the snow and went to sleep.
My parents’ providential arrival saved me from freezing to death.
In those days one couldn’t become
a scout until he was 12. However, in 1926, when I was eleven, I
cajoled my parents and the scout master, Roy Chidister, into permitting
me to go up Fish Creek in Clear Creek Canyon on the annual boy scout
hike. Roy Chidister, an electrician, was a long time friend of the
family. He had great hopes and dreams of profiting from his wealth
of information about nature. He was a Jack-of-all-trades and had
multiple interests. A remarkable, self-taught individual. He was
a good clarinetist and a few years after this incident we played
clarinet duets together. The above boy scout camp had been used
by his troupe for several years. It was a lovely, isolated spot
among the quaking aspens which few people knew about or would go
to the bother of reaching because of its inaccessibility. A truck
took us as far as the road went and then we put our bed rolls (there
were no commercial sleeping bags in those days) and food boxes in
a primitive handcart or two and went the remaining six or eight
miles to our camp on foot pulling the carts. We purposefully were
told to wear old shoes we did not care about getting wet for we
had to ford the stream 40 times pulling our hand carts before reaching
our destination. At my tender age it was a real adventure. We were
gone from home three weeks which was by far the longest I had ever
been away from home. We made our camps in the center of four trees.
Cross poles were wired to these trees and additional poles laid
across them to create a bowery shelter of about 8x10 feet and some
much larger. Then with our hatchets we cut low handing pine bows
and laid them on top to provide a “soft mattress” upon which to
pitch our pup tents and to sleep upon. Underneath we had a shelter
from the rain and a place for a primitive table and shelves to organize
our supplies on. Some of just used our grub boxes to eat our meals
on. Roy insisted everyone have a clean, interesting, and imaginative
camp. Our ropes often doubled as fences and clotheslines. We fished,
hiked, studied scouting, had contests, and fun games. On one of
our major hikes up a high, precipitous mountain we found an old
water flute or aqueduct which we found a challenge to walk along.
I stepped on a loose or rotted board and fell off the flue down
the steep mountain. The initial fall was down a 12-15 foot ledge
and from there I went tumbling down the mountain a hundred or more
feet. When I first stopped, I was so dazed by the unexpected fall
that the only thing I could think of was that I had lost my hat
and had better go back for it. I returned a few dizzy steps but
couldn’t maintain my equilibrium and fell further down the mountain,
another hundred plus feet, when I finally came to rest. There I
lay semiconscious for several minutes until the rest of the scouts
and Roy could work their way down the dangerous incline to rescue
me. Since I was immobile, they said they thought I was dead, had
a broken neck, back or leg. Seeing me roll down that far over the
vertical cliffs and landing on rocks they felt there was no way
I could survive. I was a bloody mess but was still rational enough
to community with them a little bit. My first words were, “Please,
someone, get my hat.” Brother Chidister was an expert at first
aid who specialized in mother nature’s remedies. He examined me
and could discover no broken bones which he said was a real miracle.
He had the scouts make a stretcher upon which they placed me and
carried me all the way back to camp. That was an excruciatingly
painful trip. I was stunned into numbness by the fall but my sprains,
bruises, and abrasions were now coming to full sensitivity. My companions
testified I was rolled up in a ball much of the time during the
fall. My verification of this was that I was skinned only all over
my face and head and down my back to my heels. As soon as we got
back to camp, Roy sent the scouts out to get a big supply of pine
salve from the blisters of balsam pines, which he carefully spread
over all my abrasions. I was made a bed in the biggest handcart
and placed in Roy’s camp under his bowery. I was down a day or two
before I discovered I could walk. I stayed close to camp for the
remaining week and my cuts scabbed over and healed amazingly fast.
When I returned home (there had been no way of course to communicate
from those wilds until the man assigned to pick us up at the end
of the road was scheduled to meet us). I knocked on our back door
window glass to attract the notice of Mother who was working in
the kitchen. When she saw her boy’s face, which was almost a solid
scar, she screamed. After she and the rest of the family heard the
whole story they realized I had an amazing escape from serious disaster
and was grateful.
I will mention one more of my narrow
escapes which took place during my high school days while driving
my friends up to Fish Lake Lodge to attend a dance. In those days
the Fish Lake mountain road (a dugway) was of dirt, so narrow that
usually there was not enough room for two cars to pass, and it had
many sharp, dangerous curves. I had just negotiated one of these
blind curves when I met an oncoming car in my same tracks. On my
right was the steep dugway with a drop of two or three hundred feet
down the mountain. There was no time to think; I instinctively swerved
the car to the right to avoid the head-on collision with the approaching
car. Then it was as if I had blacked out and an unseen force took
over the steering wheel, for although we started over the edge of
the dugway road and seemingly were headed down the precipice, through
some unexplainable and miraculous way my car not only dodged the
oncoming car but righted itself back on the road after giving its
six occupants an unforgettable thrill and fright as the car seemed
to be sustained itself only by its left wheels. We continued our
way very soberly as I explained to my friends that I consciously
had nothing to do with that escape. I have known ever since that
my guardian angel was riding with me that day. He has also saved
my life on other occasions since that time. Later, when reading
the last phrase of the last verse of the first chapter in the Book
of Mormon, I knew I was a recipient, worthy or not, of the Lord’s
“power of deliverance.”
After graduating from Richfield High
School in 1933 I entered Brigham Young University that Fall. I had
never had any craving to follow my father’s footsteps in medicine
but I had enjoyed high school chemistry and got an “A” in it and
algebra so I thought I’d give a go at good solid college chemistry
just to see if I could cut it. I took it from Prof. Joseph Nichols
who was a good, considerate teacher, but very demanding. I had never
worked so hard in my life academically in a class. Most of the other
students in there had had trigonometry and more advanced math courses
than I, so when I could only get at B+ in there, after a good try,
I decided that wasn’t my “bag.” As a freshman, I also took drama
and liked and did well in it. That first year I had the excellent
role of Lt. Raleigh in “Journey’s End.” I also played in the Hindu
drama called “The Little Clay Cart.” I got acquainted with T. Earl
and Kathryn B. Pardoe and eventually became a good student-friend.
This warm association lasted until Dr. Pardoe’s death and will last
with Lady Kathryn as long as she or I live. (Now in August of 1983,
as I retype this, we have both had our problems this summer, but
I just talked to her on the phone and she is better than she was
three weeks ago when she could scarcely talk to us. She is 91, blind,
and bedfast.) They were always very friendly, supportive, and helpful
to me and it was solely through them that I came to teach at BYU
much later in 1947.
I got a part-time job as a paid stage
hand, first at 20¢, then at 25¢ per hour. (After my mission in 1938,
it was raised to 30¢.) During my sophomore year I played the lead
in Coquette” and my first Shakespearian play “The Comedy of Errors,”
and also in “A Merchant of Venice.” That year I was asked to join
the national honorary dramatic fraternity, Theta Alpha Phi, and
the male social unit, The Vikings. This gave me a circle of close
friends and associates which added much to my school days. I had
also decided, at least tentatively, to become a speech major.
During my sophomore year I joined
the Utah National Guard. The 145th Field Artillery was still horse-drawn
prior to World War II in the 1930s. My motivation frankly was to
get an extra dollar a week for walking downtown and drilling for
two hours. I was a medic with the Old Provo Battery F. I was released
when I was called on a foreign mission.
My best friends that freshman and
sophomore period were Margaret Boyer, Lyman Partridge, Joe Crane,
Virginia Ekins, Clif Boyack, Lorna Wentz, Leola Green, Bill Hasler,
Norma Pardoe, Margaret Bird, Norm Freestone, Guy Callahan, Alice
Spencer, Beth Paxman, Allen Sorensen, Roy Broadbent, Ariel Davis,
Webster Decker, Helen Young, Salt Merrill, Jay Nelson, Kay Hammond,
Jack Davies, Tom Peterson, Phil Christensen, George Stoddard, Gilbert
Tolhurst, Sherman Wing, Joe Dean, Albert Swenson, Rex Thomas, Helen
Harris, carol Bennett, Nadine Taylor, Pearl Callis, Hazel Anderson,
Alice and Florence Todd, Ruth Stevens, Afton Hodson, Jennie Romney,
and Jessie Kay Magnum. Mae, Maza and Fern Christensen and Anna Lou
Peterson were also at the Y.
My first roommate was Floyd Cornaby.
He was teaching his first year at Farrer Junior High. This 6'5"
artist was also an excellent dancer who did exhibitions, i.e., various
kinds of solo dances in costume. He and Beth Paxman also did duets.
He was interesting to associate with as well as talented. We lived
at 47 North 400 East at Josh Hodson’s where we boarded. They were
a second family to me and Floyd was like an older brother. Josh
died before our second year. Later two others, Gabe Nelson and Neil
Peterson, moved in the other bedroom upstairs. Toward spring of
my sophomore year their upstairs caught fire and we were forced
to move. Neil and I became roommates. Gabe also lived in our new
house on 500 North 200 East. It was closer to school and these fellows
were older returned missionaries, but we had a lot of fun together.
I had one other memorable roommate, Leonard Rice, in 1938-39 after
I returned from my mission and lived at Allen Hall, then a new men’s
dorm. Leonard was a returned missionary also and more mature and
brilliant. He majored in English, later taught here and eventually
became a college president in the East. We were very surprised when
he married a Provo nonmember (Ruth). We were also deeply disappointed
when we found that he had later left the church. We hit it off very
well together as I had with my other college roomies.
Some of the professors I remember
well at the Y besides those mentioned already like the Pardoes,
Nicholes, and Bobby Sauer were Effie Warnick, Aline Smith, Chick
Hart, William Boyle, Guy C. Wilson, Franklin and Florence J. Madsen,
LeRoy Robertson, Golden Woolfe, P. A. Christensen, George H. Hansen,
Karl Miller, Bertrand Harrison, Buck Dixon, O. Meredith Wilson,
John C. Swenson, Joseph Sudweeks, F. F. Larsen, Anna Ollerton, Harrison
R. Merrill, Elmer Miller, Wayne B. Hales, B. F. Cummings, Ernest
Young, Karl Young, Edgar M. Jenson, A. Rex Johnson (Dean of Men),
Russell Swenson, Vasco Tanner, Gustave Buggert, William F. Hanson,
Edward Rowe, Mr. William J. Snow (historian and father of my friend
Claude who was killed in Italy during the War), L. Weston Oaks,
Wilford D. Lee, L. L. Cullimore, M. Wilford Poulson, Thomas L. Martin,
Grace Nixon Steward, Sidney B. Sperry, and three I knew only by
sight and reputation since I had no personal association with them:
G. Ott Romney, Alice L. Reynolds, and Alfred Osmond. My undergraduate
work at the Y was under the administration of Franklin S. Harris.
Dean of Arts was Gerrit de Jong who was still Dean when I was later
hired. Keifer B. Sauls and John E. Hayes were key university officials
I knew and have known for more than 40 years. Hayes accompanied
me on one of my European tours. During my last years at the Y, I
became acquainted with these faculty members: Ralph Britsch, Ariel
S. Ballif, Thomas L. Broadbent, Loren C. Bryner, Elsie Carroll,
Dean Harald R. Clark (I later was his bishop), Evan Croft, Newburn
I. But, A. John Clarke, James R. Clark, Christen Jensen, Ed and
Rod Kimball, Harold W. Lee, Wesley P. Lloyd, Alonzo J. Morley, Amos
N. Merrill, Oliver R. Smith, and J. Weldon Taylor. I was actually
acquainted with many more. During those years when BYU was small
and when I first joined the staff in 1947, I knew the names of almost
all the faculty. I don’t know nearly as many today.
I had always wanted to go on a mission
so it was a deep thrill when in April of 1935 I received a call
from President Grant to the French Mission. I immediately began
to take my French more seriously. At the end of the Spring quarter
I got sick and missed my final exam in French and the professor
didn’t’ hear of my reason for missing it until after he had given
me a “D” for that quarter’s work which is the only “D” I ever received
before or since. I’m glad to be able to redeem that by noting that
in all the upper division French classes, after I returned and in
graduate school, I received “A’s.” My B.A. was for a double major
in Speech and French; my M.A. was in Roman Languages (really French
Literature) with a minor in Speech, and my Ph.D. was a major in
Speech with a minor in French.
On June 13, 1935, I was given a farewell
testimonial in the Stake Tabernacle which included a program followed
by a dance which was rather common at that time. It was a very exciting
time to plan to go abroad to preach the gospel. The next week on
June 17, I entered the mission home in Salt Lake along with about
124 other missionaries including my cousin Clifford. The ten days
there was a period of great inspiration and learning. The general
authority who impressed me most was Elder David O. McKay. When he
shook my hand and chatted briefly with me he seemed to penetrate
the depths of my soul. It was a moment I won’t forget. It was a
privilege to be set apart as an official Elder for the Church by
one of the greatest spiritual giants and orators of the Lord’s Latter-day
Kingdom, Elder Melvin J. Ballard on June 26, 1935. I’ll append to
this brief personal history a copy of his blessing.
We crossed the continent by train
on the Los Angeles Limited which was a novelty for all of us. My
first sightseeing of a big city was in Chicago where we had a 6-8
hour layover. Since we had been sleeping in our clothes for a couple
of days, we decided to get a room in what was then the world’s largest
hotel, the Stevens, for two hours to bathe, rest briefly and then
take a short tour of the city. At noon on the 30th we arrived in
Buffalo, New York. We spent the afternoon at the magnificent Niagra
Falls, my first time in Canada. July 1st in New York. Spent the
day sightseeing New York City under the guidance of Kirk Stephons
whom I knew at the Y at Allen Hall. It was exhilarating to see Broadway
for the first time, Radio City, Wall Street, New York Harbor, and
St. Johns. I saw my first professional Broadway show that night.
The next day was with Aunt Ruby (Mother’s sister-in-law) who took
me to Radio City Music Hall (saw the Rockettes and Grace Moore).
Then she bought me a delicious dinner after which we toured Riverside
Drive and George Washington Bridge. That evening I was with the
other missionaries at Coney Island. There were 24 missionaries traveling
to Europe together. We sailed on July 3rd on the S.S. Washington of
the U.S. Lines. There were four French missionaries: Bates, Barton,
Claude Robbins, and myself. We bunked together. That was the beginning
of a close and long relationship with Don Barton, now a French teacher
at the University of Utah who also returned as President of the
Belgium Mission. He returned with me on the same U.S. Lines’ sister
ship, the S.S. Manhattan, 40 months later after we had gone
to school together in Paris for eight months and had done a lot
of traveling together. We, country boys for the most part, took
enthusiastically to this shipboard luxury where we ate all we could
five times a day. Most of us had just enough seasickness at one
time or another to experience what it was without letting it mar
our trip. I lost no meals. Naturally we did some studying and held
some meetings on board. The crossing took eight days. It was a thrill
to land at Le Havre and hear the longshoremen speaking French. We
wondered if we would ever be able to understand them. Some of us
had had some French in school but none in the mission home. The
L.T.M. was still many years away. (I am glad at least my son Michael
got in on that.)
Our first mission president, Daniel
J. Lang, met us at the Paris station, got us through customs, showed
us a bit of Paris, and took us to the Mission Home. That night we
went to Bob Allen’s home, founder of Allen’s Photo of Provo, for
dinner. I was informed that my first assignment was to help reopen
the little branch in the mountains watchmaking center, La Chaux
de Fonds, Switzerland. Elder Bates and Barton also went to Switzerland
so we took the train together the following day. We were met in
Neuchatel by my first companion, George Meredith, and Jim Condie,
an older and distinguished elder from Preston, Idaho who translated
my first mission talk into French which I gave that first Sunday.
They introduced us to missionary life, the French language, and
the wonderful Swiss people and their beautiful country. (My love
affair with Switzerland has lasted to this day after about fifteen
return visits over 40 years. We will get back there again this summer
of 1977.) Frere Meredity and I mainly hitchhiked to my first field
of labor on July 15, a city of 37,000 called “Chaudy” by the missionaries.
After about three or four days of tracting, visiting members, study,
and general missionary orientation in Neuchatel we were fortunate
to find a boarding house in our own city, Chez Robert at 9 Rue Neuve.
After being gone from home four weeks, it was great to get unpacked.
A couple of days later our District President McKinnon came to visit
and live with us for a few days. He was my ideal missionary. He
helped us with French and many things. We hitchhiked to Le Locle
to see the president of the branch. Frere Schutz. He has a charming
and intelligent family. That night I attended my first Relief Society
which was to become a weekly occupance. I even played the old pump
organ for them. It was a weird assortment of dear sisters with various
infirmities, but I grew to love them. The first family of saints
consisted of a 93-year-old brother with one eye and almost deaf.
He was bedfast and just skin and bones. He asked for an administration
so I had the opportunity of giving my first blessing. He and his
old wife lived in the garret of this ancient, decaying building.
The next family was also a horrible sight because of the poverty
and dirt. The parents had about a dozen children, all shoeless,
very filthy, and the odor was obnoxious. We had other peculiar “saints”
in that branch, many of whom were really not converted. Among three
of the faithful ones, two were cripples and the only regular attending
priesthood holder was an epileptic who had rather frequent seizures.
We spent half of each day tracting with few results and no baptisms,
but our main charge was to reactivate the members and help establish
a better esprit de corps, which with the help of President Schutz
we did. Part of the day and almost every evening we worked with
the members. Frere Meredith didn’t want to work too hard so I also
had a good amount of time to study French and the gospel, so it
was a good training period. We also spent many hours hunting up
old contacts and lost members. We had to clean La Salle (Le Local),
the glass water cups, etc. I also on my time off practiced the
organ to be able to play the hymns confidently. The organ wasn’t
easy to get any sound from. One of those first Sundays I had a very
painful time trying to get through the three sharps in “Scatter
Sunshine.”
In addition to the outstanding Schutz
family, people I remember from “Chaudy” are Sis. Neuenschwander,
the Rabus (one crippled, one an epileptic) Sis. Droz, Huguenin,
Bosso. Walter, and Hadorn. They were all very kind even though some
were eccentric. The first named was President Schutz’ sister and
an ideal in manners, spirit, and beautiful French diction.
Routine missionary work was broken
up with conferences at Neuchatel, Lausanne, and Geneva. On December
21, 1935, we went on assignment to Besancon, France to visit the
members there since they had no missionaries and to help them have
a Christmas celebration. The few members received us warmly. Back
on the 23rd for our own branch party and 16 pieces of mail. Spent
that first Christmas with the Schutz family and went skiing there
one and only time of my life. That winter we had snow piled up so
high on the sides of the streets you couldn’t see people on the
other side of the street. I saw young boys ski right inside a store.
After six months and three days I
was transferred to Neuchatel. New companion was Boyd Van Noy. Others
there were Ralph McMurdie and Don Barton who had been there with
Jim Condie but now was moved to Paris. A bigger branch and some
charming and very active families. Sis. Mattey was special. She
translated my patriarchal blessing and Elder Ballard’s blessing
when he set me apart. Other special ones were the Rivas, Merons,
Bonnys, and the exceptional B.P. and his wife, the Simonds. (Visited
with them twice in later years as he became assistant to the president
of the Swiss Temple.) We still divided our time between tracting
and visiting members and still no baptisms.
June 15, 1936 I was transferred to
beautiful Geneva. L. Edward Perry of Salt Lake was my new companion,
the most capable and “sympathique” thus far. We were a foursome
living with Rudger Jones and Ray Reeder. It has always since been
one of my favorite cities of Europe. The members covered a broader
spectrum. We still had the very humble but also had Sis. Penny who
was the mayor’s wife, a French aristocrat. Sis. Charlet and one
or two others worked for the League of Nations. They were very charming,
lovable, and faithful people. Sis. Penny took us in the royal box
to more than one gala event at the Kursal where we watched some
top international performers.
After 15 months of pleasant work in
clean, attractive Switzerland, I was called to Liege, Belgium to
be a senior elder to Nathan Allen (Roosevelt, Utah) and become president
(superintendent) of the Mission M.I.A. Belgium was not nearly as
pretty as Switzerland but its members there in Liege where the mission
headquarters now were, were friendly, much more numerous and capable
and missionary work was more fruitful. It was the first time I had
been able to attend church in a chapel. It was rewarding to invite
investigators to our building. President Octave Ursenbach was humble
and easy to work with. His charming wife and two daughters, Ruth
and Jolene, were a boost to mission morale. I worked with Ruth who
was also a missionary in compiling courses and plans for the mission
M.I.A. I was mission president of the YMMIA. Traveled to Switzerland,
etc., with President Ursenbach. Here I got acquainted with the Lahon
and other fine families. Flore Lahon married Gaston Chapuis of Switzerland
and moved to Utah where former French missionary Gaston became Utah
state handball champ. One of the finest and most intelligent families
was the widow Aurore Horbach and her charming small daughters Raymond
and Jeanne. Sis. H. was the best French teacher I had and was one
of the few I continued to correspond with.
As suggested, Belgium was more productive
in missionary work and we finally baptized a few. Switzerland had
initiated me well into the study of the gospel and had advanced
my testimony and taught me the basics of French so I could express
myself. The last year of my mission in Belgium I was in a condition
to be a much more profitable servant.
After six months in Liege I was transferred
to Herstal about six miles away. We still had to come in to Liege
once a week for our public baths. A private bath was something we
never enjoyed on our missions at that period. Since I still had
to do mission business in the office, we often spent most of our
Saturdays there. There were more wonderful people in Herstal. We
boarded with Mme. LaFleur who was warm and friendly. She fed us
a lot of potatoes and other vegetables (the best choux-fleur!) but
little meat. One day the old cat disappeared. She said we were having
rabbit for a treat, but those bones were much too round for a rabbit.
My first companion in Herstal was a Swiss-German from Biel, Edward
Dallenbach. The last one was Ben L. Whiting of Wallsburg, Utah.
Most of the language training came from the senior companions. I
did try to be very conscientious in training my juniors.
The big event at Herstal and a climactic
highlight of my mission was as senior elder in the area to prepare
the missionaries, the members, and all the investigators we had
contacted at that time or could contact for the visit of President
Heber J. Grant. This was to be the first time a living prophet of
the church was to dedicate a European chapel. We missionaries also
helped complete the building. There was a lot of excitement when
President Grant arrived with President Hugh B. Brown of the British
Mission, President Richard R. Lyman of the European Mission, who
knew my father and had stayed in our home, and Joseph Anderson,
the prophet’s secretary. We were elated with the honor and it was
very good for our missionary work. More than 200 people crowded
into the chapel for the dedication which was beyond capacity.
Baptisms were hard to come by in the
French Mission at this time. Perhaps because of the time or the
techniques or the weaknesses of the missionaries themselves or perhaps
it was the people, but conversions were slow and infrequent. Here
in Herstal, my last mission assignment, we had our most success.
At our May conference (15th and 16th) 1937 of the 21 baptisms in
the district, 15 of them were from Herstal. Many of them were old
and infirm. It took faith to put them in the water, especially Bros.
Pincens and Schmetz, the father of Sister Schmetz, and of course
dear old Sis. Dufont who had waited so long and had such great love
and devotion. She thought of me as her son or grandson so I spent
many hours with her. She couldn’t do enough for me. At any rate,
it was a special pleasure to baptize her and Sister Peters and Sister
Sabine. Other fine converts were Soeur Catherine, Sis. Peters, and
Sis. Sabine. Also, Sis. Degueldre and Sis. Marechal (our landlady)
of Liege.
La Sorbonne
Donald K. Barton and I received permission
from President Ursenbach and those above him to stay on in Europe
and study at the University of Paris. In order to do this we were
released a few weeks early in order to begin the new semester which
commenced November 1, 1937. We eventually found a nice pension in
the Latin Quarter where we could easily walk to school. We had students
of several nationalities there (more Yugoslavs than any other) but
it proved an educational experience in its own right, partly because
our Madame spoke impeccable French and was knowledgeable in many
areas. She led us in serious discussions which were much more important
than the usual table trivia. We had two meals there in the flat
at No. 4, Rue Rollin (part of the big building where the French
author Bernardin de St. Pierre was born in the 19th century) and
bought the other meal at a little nearby restaurant.
We took a two-semester course in French
Civilization which included various French Literature courses, History,
French Art, Philosophy, etc. at La Sorbonne which is the famous
school of arts and letters of the University of Paris. (It was really
a graduate school and we were supposed to have a bachelor’s degree
to be admitted, but we managed nevertheless.) French History was
my most difficult subject. We had both oral and written exams (three
hour ones in each subject). I did well in all my oral exams except
French History and the short gray bearded professor quizzed me in
a couple of areas where I was somewhat confused. All my written
exams were satisfactory so I received not only the “Normal Degree”
but “Le Degre Supe rieur” which gave me two diplomas from the University.
One semester I also attended the National Institute of Phonetics
to improve my understanding and practice of the language. After
I finished that course it was a shame I couldn’t have begun my mission
all over again since I was then so much better prepared.
Back in those times we were officially
released by the mission president and could participate in normal
social activities. We kept good and active in the Paris Branch,
but we also had a change of pace by dating some of the girlfriends
we became acquainted with in our classes. Any dances or big social
events required formal dress, so Don and I each got our first tuxedo
(possibly a used one) for a New Years evening gala event. I dated
an Eastern American girl that night, but the most interesting friend
I made was a Tokyo banker’s daughter. We had neither the time nor
the money to go out very often. This was still in the Depression
years and it was hard for my father to send me $75 to $100 per month,
but will always be grateful. (Some months in Belgium I got by for
as little as $30 per month.) This was a very profitable year and
gave me cultural background and interests which have enriched my
life ever since. I was able to transfer some of that credit back
to BYU so upon my return I was able to graduate from the Y with
a double major in Speech and Drama and French in three years instead
of four.
Dr. T. Earl Pardoe, head of BYU Theater
since 1921 (he and his charming wife Kathryn always treated me like
a son) came to Paris as I finished school. It was good to show him
around Paris and Belgium. In Ghent I attended the International
Congress of Phonetics with him. His main justification for coming
over was to deliver a paper there on his Ph.D. research on the American
Negro dialect. It was good to hear and get acquainted with some
of the world’s foremost authorities such as Daniel Jones of Great
Britain. Dr. Pardoe made himself at home in any company, no matter
what their status, and held his own extremely well. For a week he
traveled with Rudger Jones in Italy and other places where Don and
I spent three weeks during our Easter vacation from school. Then
we all met in Vienna. I went on to England with Dr. Pardoe where
after seeing some plays in London we spent a fortnight at Stratford-Upon-Avon
where his father was born to attend the Shakespearian Festival.
We saw all eight plays in their repertoire that year. The most memorable
one was a novel and colorful production by the Russian director
Komissarshevsky of “The Comedy of Errors” which Dr. Pardoe had directed
me in the year before I left upon my mission. Pardoe, Jones, Barton
and I all sailed home from Southampton on the S.S. Washington
which was the sister ship of the American Lines S.S. Constitution
which Don and I first came over on.
It was a great and emotional reunion
to meet the family again after almost 3½ years. I was in Richfield
only a week or ten days which included only one Sunday which was
stake conference at which I spoke briefly, but I didn’t really have
a formal homecoming talk in the ward as was the custom, although
I did speak at Christmas time. I was aware of big changes in the
family especially Ilah Dean and David. Utahna was going to Utah
State and Evelyn started at the Y as I returned in ‘38. Mother’s
health started to get a little worse about that time, too. So after
a short stay at home I went back to the Y for my senior year. My
main professional project was to read my play “If I Were King” (impersonate
all the roles from memory). It was in this senior play reading class
that I first met a certain Isabelle Romney. At the beginning of
the year I was in a play “We Are Seven” in which I played the lead
opposite Helen Clark in whom I became interested temporarily. This
had happened twice before in high school when I became infatuated
with my leading lady as previously mentioned. Well, fortunately
the last play of the year was “You Can’t Take It With You” starring
Dr. Pardoe as Grandpa and featuring others such as Dean de Jong,
Arthur Gaeth (who became a famous national broadcaster and was the
first president of the Czechoslovakian Mission), and Lafe Terry,
a former professional actor. Then there were Isabelle Romney and
Preston Gledhill who played the romantic leads. The Pardoes claim
this was specially planned. (Just before my mission I played opposite
their daughter, Norma, and the same thing happened, but she got
married while I was on my mission to her old boyfriend whom she
later divorced, and then remarried, ironically, a former president
of the French Mission, Duane Anderson. A few minutes ago as I was
retyping this manuscript she called me to tell me that her mother
was 91 yesterday and that she was better than when we saw her a
month ago and can sit up a little bit again.) With Isabelle it was
the real thing and for good. I lived at the boys’ dorm, Allan Hall,
(her half-brother Rulon was there, too) and Isabelle lived in the
girls’ dorm on the opposite side of the block. It was an interesting
and quick romance. I jokingly asked her to marry me before I had
a formal date with her. Our first big date was the Delta Phi formal
in Salt Lake. The folks were up for general conference since Dad
was in the stake presidency. That once was the only time we dated
in a car before we were married. (It is factual that earlier in
the year we had gone to a dance together in the Women’s Gym but
nothing consequential happened as it did during the play and on
that memorable date to Salt Lake.)
We decided there was no use waiting
so we made and executed plans to get married on June 7, 1939, also
our commencement day. I never had met her folks who lived in Colonia
Juarez, Chihuahua, Mexico. They could come up for one big event
but not for two so we made it a doubleheader. We received our diplomas
that morning at the Provo Stake Tabernacle and since we had both
received our endowment, went to Salt Lake where we were sealed by
President Chipman of the Salt Lake Temple that afternoon. There
was a small family open house at one of Isabelle’s uncles that evening
in Salt Lake. After this, her parents went back to Mexico and my
Dad took us to our honeymoon mountain cottage in Wildwood in Provo
Canyon. It was generously loaned to us by a mutual friend and drama
major and member of our play reading class, Fae Clark. It was an
idyllic spot to relax after our hectic spring courtship and graduation.
By the time Dad got us up in Provo Canyon to our honeymoon cabin
he was too tired to drive on to Richfield so we had him sleep on
the couch in the front room. It is a good thing Mother had purchased
us a box of groceries for we hadn’t given any thought to such mundane
things as food and there we would have been and were without a store
or a car. The bliss of our honeymoon went unabated despite some
minor pranks by the Bricker social unit who was sojourning at Bricker
Haven.
We hitchhiked our belongings back
down to Provo where we had rented our first apartment at Isaac Brockbank’s
on 500 North just off University Avenue west. I went to summer school
to pursue my teaching certificate while Isabelle set up her first
experience at housekeeping in 100+ heat in the upstairs southwest
part of the house. The second summer session we spent at Aspen Grove
where it was much cooler and more enchanting. In order to afford
the pleasant Wakefield cabin, we shared it with Floyd Cornaby, my
former freshman year roommate, who taught art there. We had no hot
water but sometimes the sun took the chill off the water pipes outside
to make the shower bearable. Then came the dreaded separation. Isabelle
had signed a contract with Juarez Stake Academy before our engagement
to teach there and I had received a fellowship at Louisiana State
University where I could work toward my M.A. degree. I earned it
in French Literature with my thesis on the social ideas in the 37
plays of Eugene Brieux. In addition I got a minor in Speech as I
concentrated on the science of phonetics under the tutelage of Dr.
Claud M. Wise, America’s foremost phonetician, which proved very
valuable to me during the balance of my teaching career as I became
the expert in phonetics during my long career at BYU. One my way
to Baton Rouge I accompanied Isabelle to her home and my introduction
to Mexico. We went over the poor dirt road with her father and brother
Gaskell. The car got stuck, then broke down. We finally were hauled
behind a blaring sound truck and arrived in Juarez after midnight
where there was no electricity. We were covered with dust, so we
took a bath in seemingly “muddy” water. After a week of getting
acquainted with the Romneys, their orchards, mountains, and picnic
areas I was on my way lone to Baton Rouge. I was wearing my wool
green sports jacket and carrying all my luggage for the year up
to the Maison Francaise (which was a replica of a French castle).
I was wringing wet, but soon met our charming Creole French speaking
Madame who was the manager of the language center. I also met my
Cajun roommate Pierre Drouet. He was a good catholic and very pleasant
and easy to live with. He even knelt down beside his bed to say
his prayers as I did. We spoke only French at our meals in our beautiful
dining hall. I was leader of our particular table. I got a touch
of the old South with all of our colored servants and waiters, grits,
bacon, and eggs. It was a good educational experience even though
a very lonely year for us. I was able to work long and hard to get
the degree all finished in the two semesters. The small branch was
a happy respite on Sundays. I was able to go to El Paso (again by
bus) for a wonderful Christmas and reunion with my wife and a fun
visit with Eloise and LaVon including an interesting visit or two
to Ciudad Juarez. We had another glorious get together when Isabelle
came down to Baton Rouge and stayed with me at the French House
during Easter vacation. Her happy visit included a trip to the antebellum
South in Natchez, Mississippi where we visited all of the old southern
mansions. It was another difficult parting but the last one before
I returned to Mexico in June after terminating my work at L.S.U.
Then we went to Richfield where we
rented a nice little house for $25 a month. I worked at Safeway
Stores for 40¢ an hour. My folks provided us with a lot of fruit,
vegetables, and other things that first year of my teaching. I taught
speech and English and directed some plays at Richfield High School.
My first year’s salary, after receiving my M.A., was the princely
sum of $1,100. I was offered $1,450 at Madison High School the next
year so we trecked north. At RHS I had my youngest sister Ilah Dean
in two plays. At the state, or “The Rocky Mountain” Drama Festival
at BYU she won the best character actress in my contest play, “The
Singapore Spider,” which also received an excellent rating. The
first full length play I ever directed was “The American Way” there
at RHS. (See the appendix for a full list of productions directed.)
The most momentous event as well as
the most traumatic occurred on May 22, 1941 when our first son was
born. Isabelle couldn’t dilate properly probably because of a case
of rickets as a child and the eight-hour difficult forceps delivery
by my father made the choice of sacrificing the baby to save the
mother an obvious but sorrowful one. Dad said it had been his hardest
delivery in several decades of practice. The baby, which weighted
ten pounds, was buried in the folks’ family plot where Mother and
Father also rest at the time of this writing. He was handsome and
an active child prior to and during the first part of the birth
process. Technically it was a still birth but President Joseph Fielding
Smith said it is likely that we may have the opportunity of rearing
him after the resurrection. We named him Preston Romney on our family
pedigree chart.
Rexburg was my most rewarding teaching
experience as far as close relationship with my students is concerned.
I had an exceptional group such as David (Bud) Davis, Ted Siddoway,
Quinton Klinger, et al who were brilliant and very devoted to their
instructor. Other close Rexburg students were Annette Craven, Faunda
Ree Nelson, Doug Kerr, Leah Belle Davidson, Marian Heileson, Janet
Bitter, Margie Williams, Marian Heileson, Bob Young, Beverly Waltz,
Betty Cottle, Bob Poole, Edwin Young, and Paul Stowell. E. S. Stucki
was the superintendent and principal. It was the nearest thing I
have ever had to hero worship as I taught these eager young people
English, speech, French, and Spanish. We lived in an upstairs downtown
apartment. We didn’t have a car in Idaho until our second year in
Rexburg, a $200 used Chevrolet purchased from Isabelle’s brother
Rulon. A memorable day was Pearl Harbor’s attack on December 7,
1941. My brother, T.R., who was a missionary in that area of Hawaii,
viewed the infamous event from his apartment overlooking Pearl Harbor.
Our happiest moment was one year later, December 7, 1942 when Robert
Barry was born in the Rigby Hospital. Isabelle had had false labor
twice and then was in the hospital almost two days in labor before
he was born, but he was a healthy and rewarding baby. He was even
more special because of our losing the first child. Between the
two school years at Rexburg I had to go to Moscow, Idaho to get
my Idaho teaching certificate. The summer was enhanced by having
Dr. and Mrs. Pardoe just over the border where he was teaching at
Washington State in Pullman. We commiserated with each other since
they had just lost their son, David, in a hiking accident near the
time we lost our baby in Richfield. It was a weepy time for Isabelle
and Kathryn when we both went to a sad movie together in which the
young boy died.
While at Madison High School I started
a chapter of the National Thespian Society, Troupe #10. Each year
we had a Thespian assembly which was the best one of the year. We
also had an annual “Novelty Night” which no one seemed to want to
miss. In 1942 our Thespians joined with Troupe #80 of Idaho Falls
for a dinner program and dance which was to become an annual affair.
There was no work in Rexburg for me during the summer so we left
after two pleasant years and I secured a job in Ogden. “A Murder
Has Been Arranged” by Emlyn Williams was one of several plays I
did at Rexburg (1941-43). Others were “The Case of the Laughing
Dwarf,” “Sky Road,” “Jude the Obscure,” and the opera “Shreds and
Patches.” Perhaps the most popular show I did at Madison High was
“June Mad.”
The summer of 1943 we lived in Brigham
City where I commuted to Ogden to do some defense work in the Adjutant
General’s Depot in order to do my war bit since I had been rejected
by the army and was classified 4-F. I was in the service one day
when I was called up to Fort Douglas for the official examination.
After listening to my heart, the doctor said the military wasn’t
interested in me. I kept my 4-F classification for the duration
of the war.
In order to maintain two jobs, I taught
French and Spanish in Central Junior High in Ogden until Christmas
of ‘43 when I got my first college job at Utah State Branch Agricultural
College in Cedar City (now Southern Utah State College). I was made
head of English, Modern Languages and Speech. I directed “Our Town”
there in a good community and college production. I had as much
prestige and as many friends in Cedar as at any other place or school
I have worked at. I also enjoyed doing the dramas “Nine Girls There”
as well as several radio programs. I was manager of the municipal
swimming pool the summer of ‘44 and was an extra in a couple of
Hollywood movies there in Cedar and in Kanab. Roddy McDowell (a
hot movie property at the moment) and other movie people occasionally
pushed their weight around and had me open the pool for them during
special hours.
We made many good friends there in
the town as well as at the school among the faculty and students.
Robert started getting bad attacks of asthma in the winter at this
altitude. His doctor advised us to take him to a warmer place. I
went to summer school at the University of Wisconsin at Madison
in ‘45 to pursue my Ph.D. program. I made contacts there which led
to my being invited to teach at the University of Alabama at Tuscaloosa.
My official title was Assistant Professor of Radio Arts and Director
of the Theater. I was also sponsor for the Blackfriars, the dramatic
fraternity. We drove all the way from Cedar to Alabama in an old
‘37 Plymouth couple which Neil McKnight, my brother-in-law, had
had nothing but trouble with. He sold it to us for $125 and was
afraid he was cheating us, but it served us well, saw me through
my Ph.D. work and got me as far back as Afton, Wyoming (‘47) where
it burned out a bearing. I still sold it for $100 for scrap metal
after driving it all during the war years with scarcely any trouble.
Robert was better in Alabama and there in May 1946 David Charles
was born at 8:15 p.m. the 20th which happened to be just the time
my opening night curtain rose on my production of “Angel Street.”
The other play I enjoyed doing and staging at “Bama” was “Blithe
Spirit”; also among others “Papa Is All.” I was in charge of staging
and all aspects of theater including business and publicity all
those years before I arrived at BYU. Back to that exciting night
of the 20th when I had a double production. I wasn’t allowed in
the delivery room there, but Isabelle’s mother came to visit to
comfort us a bit and I did have a telephone just off stage and was
able to keep up with the progress of Isabelle’s delivery. When the
news came that the big boy had arrived and curtain was rung up on
the show, I dashed to the hospital and welcomed the new arrival
and congratulated the mother by the time she was out of the anesthetic.
We pulled up roots again after making some find friends such as
the Osmoses in Tuscaloosa and being treated very cordially by the
faculty and administration as well as some close students. My department
head was T. Earl Johnson, a speech pathologist. It was a second
good year and taste of the deep south. After teaching summer school
in that hot, humid climate we packed all our belongings in that
small Plymouth the Fall of ‘46 and the four of us headed for cold
Wisconsin.
It so happened that we did arrive
in a cold rain and at least Robert got a bad cold so we were rather
miserable in the cheap motel we were in temporarily until we could
find something more permanent. Wisconsin was and is a huge university.
The war housing shortage of housing was at its height. The first
couple of days of apartment hunting (a house was unthinkable) were
dreadfully discouraging. On the third day I was determined and inspired
to sit it out in the UW housing office until something good happened.
It didn’t have to wait much more than an hour when our sincere and
urgent prayers were answered despite our being repeatedly told that
there simply was nothing available for a family in Madison or its
environs. A kind old gentleman of Germanic extraction came up and
asked me, of all people in that crowded office, where he might list
a little new house he had to rent. Needless to say he didn’t ever
get to officially list it because it was manna from heaven for us.
It was located in Waunakee on the other side of the lake from Madison
about seven miles from the university. The house was built near
the mouth of a river which emptied into the lake. The kind gentleman
and his lovely wife lived next door. We had our own private pier
for fishing which was our main meat source for the next year even
though most of the fish were catfish and were usually caught and
skinned by our kind neighbors. The house was completely unfurnished
and when we moved in, which was immediately, it didn’t even have
a hot water heater or furnace. We bought a used hotplate and a
few other bare necessities in a Salvation Army thrift shop such
as a bed, table, and a few chairs. It was new and clean and we were
extremely grateful. I think it rented for $60 or $70 a month and
after a month our good landlord generously reduced it $10 of his
own free will. LaVar and Helen Bateman, whom we had gone to school
with at the Y, were also in the same graduate school department
even though in another specialization. They became close friends
and other LDS members such as Ron and Helen Larsen came out to our
place occasionally since we had the largest house, two bedrooms
with a fine living room and kitchen area, of any of the Mormon contingent.
When the lake and river froze over we built a bonfire at night and
had an excellent skating party on the ice. One memorable experience
was driving home from school after a day that was so mild I hadn’t
worn a coat and getting caught in a real blizzard. The snow came
down so fast I was soon unable to see the road. With no tracks to
follow and big snow drifts piling up I had to abandon the car and
set out on foot. By this time the snow was so high it covered the
fence tops so I could go directly home, about two miles, through
the fields. But since these two or three feet of snow were fresh,
ploughing through it waist deep was one of the most difficult and
tiring things I had ever done. Obviously I was wet to the skin and
extremely cold. Prayers and perseverance pulled me through although
I was a little worried about a heart attack my chest was pounding
so heavily. The blizzard continued during the night after I was
safely home, warm and dry. The next morning the one side of the
house was embedded in snow right up to the roof line and on the
same angle down to the ground. One outside door was completely snowed
in but we were able to borough out through the remaining one. We
were snowbound for two days as far as using the road and getting
to Madison were concerned. I had to walk over a mile to the country
store to buy milk and a couple of other necessities for Robert and
David. The snow plow eventually cleared the road and uncovered our
car and our daily routine resumed.
We eventually got through the winter
and spiring. With more than my average discipline and hard work
I did well in my classes. There was more to do to fulfill my requirement
because I got my M.A. in French Literature while now I was getting
my Ph.D. in Speech (Interpretation and Theater were my specialities).
The reason I was able to get through in the absolute minimum time
again was partly because I didn’t have to spend as much time on
languages as most candidates do. My French qualifying exam was just
conversing in French with my examining professor. I was allowed
to take Spanish as a second language instead of German which made
it easier for me but still required some study. I was offered a
job at the Y in late spring of 1947. President McDonald met me in
Chicago for the interview. My starting salary was to be $3,300 if
I completed all my course work for the Ph.D., leaving only the dissertation.
(They “generously” raised it later to about $3,700.) In order to
complete all the course work and qualifying exams, we could see
it would be wiser for Isabelle to take the two boys home for the
summer and let me concentrate totally on my studies. I got them
a roomette on a train to El Paso where they were met and taken on
to her mother’s in Colonia Juarez.
I immersed myself in my studies so
I could complete every requirement I was going to need at Madison
as far as residency and course work were concerned. The one diversion
I indulged in at the urging of my major professor, Ronald E. Mitchel
(originally from England and wales and a fine playwright) was to
take the leading role in Shaw’s “Arms and the Man” which was quite
a good experience. It is strange but I later directed both the Wisconsin
shows I was in at BYU. The other one was “Joan of Lorraine” directed
by Joseph F. Smith, former patriarch to the church and department
head at the University of Utah.
At the end of the summer, with all
exams successfully completed, I packed up the Plymouth coupe and
headed for Utah. Isabelle had already arrived in Provo and was moving
in the temporary housing of Wymount Village. I just got through
Afton, Wyoming when “the old reliable” failed me and burned out
the bearings. I called Dad in Richfield to see if he could go up
to Provo and get the boys and have Isabelle come and pick me up.,
she had just recently bought a two seat old black Pontiac from her
brother, Gaskell, to get her and the boys up to Utah. It was a happy
reunion in Afton. We put all my things out of the Plymouth into
the Pontiac and started to get back to Provo or Richfield as fast
as possible as fate would have it, when we got to the same spot
on the road, two miles south of Afton, the Pontiac burned out a
bearing also. Our only alternative this time was to have it towed
to a garage where it could be repaired. That wouldn’t have been
so bad had they had the parts and could have done it the next morning.
Instead they had to send to a larger center for them and it took
two full days for them to arrive. On the third day we made it on
down to Richfield where we had another reunion. Isabelle and I had
a fine visit in Afton but we were a little worried about the children
since Robert wasn’t very well and Mother wasn’t either. Then we
were having to spend money we had to borrow from Dad which hurt.
We finally got settled in Wymount which was very hot that late summer
in the upper story. We didn’t even have air conditioning in the
schoolrooms in those days.
My total check for that first year
of teaching at Richfield was $89 a month. We soon found we couldn’t
afford a car so we sold it when Rulon Romney needed transportation
to Sugar City, Idaho to teach. Our first new car was a 1949 light
green Ford. To get just what we wanted we had to pick it up at Price.
That smell of newness was a wonderful thing; so was the reliability.
My first office at the Y was a makeshift
affair between College Hall and Room D which had been turned into
an art gallery and museum. My first class was a phonetics class
I taught in the Manavu Ward Chapel. My other classes of pantomime
and voice and interpretation were in the College Building. The first
play I directed at BYU was Moliere’s “The Imaginary Invalid” which
had some of the best and most talented performers I have ever had
at the Y. They included Bob Kest (our top comedian), Burnette Ferguson
who had played in the movies with Lorraine Day, and Elaine Erickson,
another great comedian and dancer. (Her younger but bigger sister
Lorna was later to become one of our outstanding comediennes also.
She was in my “Arsenic and Old Lace” for one thing along with Julie
Groberg (Blair), John A. Green, et al.) We still had to carry our
scenery from the old shop across the street on 500 North behind
the old bindery, now a cleaning establishment. We have improved
considerably on the technical aspects over 30 years.
I was fortunate enough to have Burnette
Ferguson in two more plays on successive years, “Seventh Heaven”
and “Arms and the Man.” The latter was my first direct work with
Max Golightly who did an excellent Major Petkoff character. We had
a very closely knit faculty headed by T. Earl and Kathryn Pardoe.
We met once a month on a social basis: Lorin Jex, Burnett, Bob Kest,
LaVar and Helen, Jim and Arlene Ludlow, the Morleys, and the Gledhill’s.
There was a very strong rapport. Morris Clinger came up from B.Y.
High, I think just before Dr. Pardoe was released. Dean Jones and
Merlin Mecham were also warm friends. After ‘52 that era and esprit
de corps and open camaraderie ended. Private lessons from such as
the Pardoes and Grace Nixon Stewart ended a certain artistry and
concentrated struggle for perfection through play reading or impersonations.
It was a bitter pill for Dr. Pardoe to have to retire.
Under the chairmanship of Harold I.
Hansen many technical improvements as well as a broadening of the
academic program developed. This was the beginning of the era of
President Ernest Wilkinson when BYU received its greatest growth
in students, staff, and buildings. As an undergraduate student I
knew a larger percentage of the faculty than I did after the school
underwent its growing pains.
Lady Kathryn stayed on a few years
as a part-time teacher. We did our plays in the Joseph Smith Auditorium
and also did some arena plays in sundry locations. My first one
was “The Male Animal” which was the first to be done at the Y in
that way in the old lower campus Arts Building with such old friends
as Jed Richardson, M. W. Smith, Max and Florence Rodgers. I also
did “There’s Always Juliet” in the basement of the new Smoot Administration
Building. During Pardoe’s era we moved to our own temporary building,
“The Speech Center.” We were at least all together in one building
and on the upper campus. From there we were forced to make way for
a new Engineering Building and went to some temporary houses, Steadman
and Ekins, on Canyon Road and taught our classes in the Page School.
We spent our last year there after our sabbatical leave to Hawaii
in 1962-63. In the fall of 1964 we finally moved into our academic
dream building, The Harris Fine Arts Center. My first production
there was “The Miracle Worker” which was a memorable one and the
one requiring the most work since I tried out 80 Helen Kellers and
used two of them.
It was a nagging chore during my first
two years at the Y to write my dissertation. I worked through the
mails under the direction of Prof. Mitchell of the University of
Wisconsin. I did much of my research in Salt Lake at the Church
offices since I wrote a history of the LDS dramatic activities from
the beginning until in 1950 when I completed it. Just before the
Christmas holidays I went back to Madison where I defended successfully
my dissertation I had been working on for almost five years. The
majority of it, however, had been accomplished in the final two
years. It was a huge relief to finally earn that doctorate which
had been a long anticipated objective.
As I gave birth to my academic “baby”
(my typist had just completed the final draft of my dissertation),
Isabelle gave birth to Michael Brent, our fourth son, which was
a much more valuable and everlasting creation than my scholarly
one. This important landmark in our lives occurred November 25,
1950. He was our first child born in the Utah Valley Hospital under
the supervision of Dr. L. L. Cullimore. While Isabelle was very
pregnant with Michael, just before going to the hospital, she helped
me assemble the five copies of my dissertation. (After 33 years
the image of that chaotic picture in our small apartment at 459
North 400 East is still vivid.) That Christmas we felt particularly
blessed with our three boys plus the new degree.
I first came to the Y as an Assistant
Professor of Speech. With the advent of H. I. Hansen the department
was changed to Speech and Dramatic Arts. After receiving my doctorate,
I was elevated to the title of Associate Professor. The final changes
were Professor of Theater and Cinematic Arts for the majority of
my tenure until on September 1, 1980 I was “raised” to the title
of Professor Emeritus.
The courses I taught most frequently
the last 25 years were beginning, intermediate, and advanced acting,
all of the interpretation courses which included four on a graduate
level, many voice, diction, and interpretation classes, the directing
courses on an undergraduate and graduate level, introduction to
the theater, theater history, and a few others. I was considered
the specialist in phonetics and dialects which I taught from the
beginning to the end. In addition to my teaching at BYU from 1947
to 1980, my special contribution was the production of 63 plays,
operas, and musicals, the titles of which are listed in the appendix.
I was the pioneer in doing arena productions (theater-in-the-round)
and in developing a well produced and memorized Readers Theater
which became an integral part of the theater program of the department.
In these productions in order to heighten the audience’s imagination,
I experimented with lighting, music, film, and sound effects as
well as in non-realistic staging.
My first sabbatical leave was granted
for the study of the popular open-air theater in Mexico together
with a study of the National Theater of Mexico. This was an interesting
and profitable spring in Mexico City in 1956 and a big change from
the travel and study I had done of the European theater. I was happy
to practice my Spanish and be able to finally understand the plays
I was viewing. Isabelle stayed with the family until Robert and
David were out of school. Then she drove all four of them, with
Julie only two years old, down to meet me. They visited in Colonia
Juarez on their way and Julie was quite sick before they arrived
in Mexico City. It was a happy reunion and we enjoyed sightseeing
in a car since I had been without one. Traffic is crazy in that
huge city, however.
January 7, 1954 was a red-letter day
in the Gledhill household, for on that day after four boys we finally
got our little girl whom we named Julie Anne. It was a profound
blessing and answer to our prayers. She has been a joy and a continuous
blessing ever since. From her birth until the present she has brought
us nothing but happiness. She had good friends and associates throughout
her school days and after attending Ricks College one year got her
B.A. from BYU in CDFR. She married a fine young returned missionary
from El Paso, Joe E. Martin, before they had their degrees. She
has taught preschool ever since. They had Tyler, their only child,
while we taught our last year in Hawaii. Jody has been attending
podiatry school in San Francisco and they are now living in Alhambra
where he is doing clinical work prior to his residency. We visited
them in San Francisco and plan to go down there for a visit at the
end of this month (September 1983) when we will also take in the
UCLA-BYU football game on our way to Hawaii for a week. (Julie and
Tyler flew up after my second brain surgery and was a real Godsend
for me. She made my worst physical ordeal thus far bearable and
a lot less lonely.)
On February 13, 1955, our family drove
to Richfield to celebrate my father’s 72nd birthday. In a letter
he wrote us in Wisconsin he stated that he felt certain he would
live the full age of man (“. . . After that ye are seventy and two
years old ye shall come unto me in my kingdom; and with me ye shall
find rest.” 3 Nephi 28:2-3). During dinner he left the table and
went in the front room and lay down on the sofa. After a bit I followed
and he told me I should take him to the hospital. He had a ruptured
appendix and already had peritonitis. He died five days later after
having lived a full and productive life in good health until that
memorable day. My mother had had a stroke two years previously and
survived my father as an invalid by five months. She died at Ora’s
apartment in Salt Lake. It was even a more tragic event when my
brother, T. R., was killed in an airplane crash on Thanksgiving,
1965, leaving his lovely wife RaNae and four children.
In addition to my own dear wife and
children, I am very grateful to have had such choice parents and
brothers and sisters. Even more than all the physical comforts and
sacrifices, I am appreciative of our parents’ love and spiritual
training and example. I just hope that we have given our own children
a home environment at least somewhat comparable, since that could
be our chief contribution in this life.
Dr. Pardoe had planned to conduct
a European tour during the summer of 1951 but when President McDonald,
who hired me, was released and President Wilkinson was chosen as
the new president, he indicated he was going to retire faculty at
age 65. Dr. Pardoe’s time had come but he felt he was far from ready
to retire. His nervousness about leaving town gave me an opportunity
to take over the tour he had started to organize. I didn’t have
long to recruit but got a small group and we sailed to the Mediterranean
where we disembarked at Gibraltar. (A longshoreman’s strike delayed
us five days in New York which caused us considerable money and
anxiety.) We spent almost three weeks in Spain which was the longest
time I have spent there at one time. We were especially impressed
with Granada and its Moorish architecture and enchantment. Our first
night was in Aljeciras at a luxurious, country club-type hotel where
we ate outside to the accompaniment of a symphony orchestra and
were treated to a ten-course elegantly served inner by formally
attired attentive waiters. It was a glorious introduction to old
world tradition and bonne cuisine for the bons vivants.
This small but intimate and friendly
group composing my first of many tours, went on to France, Italy,
Switzerland, Holland, and England. Most of my itineraries are fairly
accurate and I will place most of them in the appendix, but the
strike-caused delay necessitated juggling the order of this 1951
tour. The next and final independently organized tour on my own
was in 1953 which proved so successful that to accommodate the 65
people I was forced to use two buses. This allowed me to pay Ora’s
way by having her ride with and, more or less, be in charge of the
second bus. It was a bargain at $987 for a round trip by boat, three
meals a day for over two months. While we were touring, President
Wilkinson announced that no professor could compete henceforth with
BYU travel study which at its debut was less successful. The tour
featured travel through the Mediterranean to Naples, Pompeii, Sorrento,
the Isle of Capri, and other tourist highlights of Italy before
“doing” France, Switzerland, Belgium, Holland, and England without
any retracing.
My next two tours of Europe were large
student groups in 1956 and ‘59 which also provided a great deal
for the money. In ‘56 we sailed from Montreal down the St. Lawrence
River to England where we saw, among other things, the new LDS temples
under construction at New Chapel; then to Sweden, Denmark, Holland,
etc. After traveling more than two months, we emplaned from Paris
for a homeward flight. In ‘59 the order was reversed and after
beginning in New York we flew directly to Lisbon, Portugal. Then,
after visiting 20 different countries and their capitals and other
municipalities including Tangiers in North Africa, we sailed from
Cobh, Ireland and crossed over to Montreal, Canada. (Some highlights
were the Casbah in Tangiers, then Alhambra in Granada, the famous
Bull Run and fights in Pamplona, an open air production in the Colosseum
in Aix-en-Provence, also one in Rome at Baths of Caraculla housing
the world’s largest stage and the renown “Everyman” in front of
the cathedral at Salzburg. The students enjoyed sliding down in
the salt mines in Salzburg and riding through the awesome cave at
Ljubljana, Yugoslavia. Additional memorable productions were the
William Tell pastoral play in its natural setting in Interlaken,
my second viewing of this Swiss folk tale. Also, a colorful opera
in the floating opera house on the Rhine at Koblenz, and those in
New York, Paris, London, Stratford-upon-Avon, and the one in the
historic Abbey Theater in Dublin.
My 1960 tour was a large and interesting
one of affluent adults. It featured the Passion Play in Oberammergau,
Germany, a great experience. Another unforgettable spectacle was
the Rhine Aflame evening which was capped by an incredible fireworks
display. This was the first I have done both Atlantic crossings
by plane, landing at London and department from Amsterdam.
In 1961 we visited ten different countries
in just a little over a month, by far the quickest thus far. We
flew directly to Rome from New York and wound up in Scotland where
we flew home from Prestwick Airport.
My 1962 jet tour of 20 countries was
the most ambitious one so far. In addition to the usual countries
of Western Europe, after arriving in Portugal we also visited Majorca,
Greece, Turkey, Poland, Russia, Finland, Sweden, Norway, and Denmark.
We were especially fascinated by Berlin, Russia, Greece, and the
International Music and Drama Festival in Edinburgh. My personal
highlight of this trip was visiting with Robert who was a missionary
in Paris. He had his companion go with the district leader and took
me on the back of his Honda or Moped bike tracting in the suburbs.
He gave me a harrowing ride through downtown Paris en route. Because
of my maturity I was able to get a conversation at each door or
with people we contacted on the street. Another factor was our being
a strange American “couple” on a bike.
When Reuben D. Law was appointed president
of BYU-Hawaii he asked me to join the faculty. The family didn’t
want to be displaced for such a pioneering venture in a permanent
situation, but we were glad to be offered a one year’s contract
as a visiting professor for 1962-63. I took over speech and phonetics
and also had to teach a little English. I was on a sabbatical from
the Y to make a phonetic study of the various native forms of Pidgin
English spoken on Oahu. I not only worked with local natives and
BYU students but made frequent trips to the library in Honolulu.
Bob was still on his mission but the other three thoroughly enjoyed
their year. We lived in a new frame home on Kam Highway in Hauula
where we were only one of two or three white (haole) families in
the ward. We experienced a whole new culture and were bemused by
the rivalry between Samoans and Hawaiians in the ward. We enjoyed
the informality of The Church College of Hawaii, as it was officially
called at that time, and fell in love with the islands. The family
was delighted with our excursion to the garden Isle of Kauai. I
wanted to see more of the islands, so I set up a dream tour of Hawaii
which became my 1963 guided outing. Arranged by correspondence with
Travel Study, and with the individual members I recruited (I haven’t
mentioned the considerable time and effort it takes to organize
and lead a tour), this tour was different from my others in that
it didn’t really begin until I met the group at Honolulu Airport.
We visited the four major islands. Highlights included driving up
the Haleakala to watch the sun rise over the largest volcanic crater
in the world and one of the most active, a luau and program by church
members in Hilo, the Big Island’s Kona Coast where some of us went
deep sea fishing and I caught a large mahi mahi. We returned to
Laie for the evening for a visit to CCH, the temple, etc. The next
morning Isabelle cooked a delicious mahi mahi breakfast for my group.
The local church members gave them a luau as well as native dancing.
Dave, Mike, and Julie spent a lot
of time on the beach. So did their parents. We had never been so
close together and done so much as a family. We not only played,
tanned, swam, and snorkeled on our beach, but put on 6,000 miles
on an old Pontiac we bought over there. Living on the seaside with
no telephone or TV was very salutary and fun.
My 1964 “Around the World Tour” was
the best yet offered by BYU or me. It was a deluxe tour of 2½ months
which began and ended in Salt Lake first. Went to Hawaii, then included
meaningful and sometimes exciting visits to Japan, Formosa, Hong
Kong, the Phillippines, South Viet Nam, Cambodia, Singapore, Indonesia,
Bali, Thailand, India, cashmere, Kenya, Uganda, Egypt, Lebanon,
Syria, Jordan, Israel, Greece, Sicily, stopover privileges in Europe,
and ending up at the World’s Fair in New York. Some of the special
new highlights to me were the African safari, the ruins near Siem
Reap (Anior Wat), the Isle of Bali, the Taj Majal, the houseboat
in Srinagar, the Luxor Egyptian temples and monuments, the night
spent in a tent city near the pyramids, and the Holy Land. The hardest
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